Five Disney Movies That Make Me Cry Uncontrollably
We associate many feelings with Walt Disney World and with Disney films; everything from anticipation and excitement to wonderment and, of course, happiness. But Disney can bring out the emotional side in all of us too, and in many ways that’s the most powerful feeling of all. Not of sadness per se, but something that touches you deeply in a personal way, and may even bring a tear to your eye. It may be the overwhelming sense of unity and togetherness that you get during IllumiNations, or the realization that your childhood dreams are coming true right before your eyes when you see fireworks blooming in the night sky behind Cinderella Castle.
For me, Disney-Pixar animated films are filled with these teary-eyed moments, and no matter how many times I see them, I have to make sure I have a box of tissues right by my side! There are far too many moments to list here, but here are five of my “Most Tearful Disney Moments.” (Tissues ready? OK, here we go!)
Up
I’m sure we can all agree with this one. While most of the film is colorful and filled with exciting adventures, the opening segment is one of the most emotionally powerful moments to be found in any animated film, or dare I say, in any film. As we live out Carl and Ellie’s childhood romance, wedding, and long life together, we are as heart broken as Carl is when he has to say goodbye to his lifelong love. (I’ll bet there’s a tear in your eye right now, I will openly admit there’s one in mine.) I also get (very) weepy at the end of the film, when Carl steps in and presents Russell with the grape soda cap badge that Ellie gave to him when they were children. It’s the culmination of a long emotional journey for Carl (who’s had to live on his own mourning over his lost-but-never-truly-gone love) and for Russell, who grew up without a father.
WALL-E
I’ve gone out on a limb many a time to declare that WALL-E is the greatest love story every committed to film…ever. Animated or otherwise. Though it’s an adventure story on the surface with a powerful ecological message, at its heart it’s a love story; a love story unlike anything we’ve seen before. Storytelling was and will always be at the heart of every Disney film, and the way in which this tale of loneliness, yearning, and love was crafted is pure genius; especially when you consider that the two characters are robots and that the bulk of their story is conveyed with very little or no dialog at all. It’s a beautiful story, but the moment that really makes my heart swell (and makes my tears cascade down my cheek) is when Eve is looking back through video files and realizes that WALL-E was protecting her and standing by her side the whole time she went into hibernation mode. It’s at that point that Eve understands everything that WALL-E had been going through; loneliness, a longing for a love he thought he could never have, and his unwavering devotion to Eve despite her initial (preprogrammed) indifference. It’s Eve’s revelation that really touches me; the moment when you learn what true love is, and that that love has been next to you the whole time. As I said, the greatest love story ever told.
Ratatouille
I confess this one is hard to explain; in that I’m not sure why it affects my so deeply. You’d think I’d be referring to the moment when Linguini and Colette fall in love, or when Remy’s father finally understands and accepts his son for who he truly is inside. These are emotional moments to be sure, but the scene that always gets me weeping is when Anton Ego takes that first bite of ratatouille and instantly becomes a child again. Why does this scene affect me so much? I think it’s because it’s that sudden realization that no matter how “grown up” we think we are, there’s always a part of us that’s a child at heart (whether we realize it or not). One who is vulnerable, sometimes scared, and wanting to be loved and accepted. As Anton remembers how he was comforted by his mother after his minor accident, has hardened exterior melts away and you can tell he reconnects with what is truly important again. It’s that reaffirmation of the powerful bond between parent and child that really tugs at my heart…that bond that can never truly be broken (and one we’ll revisit a little later in this list).
Toy Story 2
I’m sure this next one is on everyone’s list. There are plenty of emotional journeys that play out in this film, from Woody’s fear of being abandoned to his having to choose between his old friends and his new “family.” But it’s Jessie’s story that is the most heart-wrenching of all. Though Woody’s fears stemmed from a series of misunderstandings and accidents (after all, Andy never truly wanted to throw him away, much less have him sold in a yard sale), Jessie’s abandonment was very real. As we relive her story, told through visuals and the “you can’t help but cry when you hear it” song “When She Loved Me,” sung by Sarah McLachlan, I for one turn into a pitiful blob of blubbering jelly. So much so that when I see the film in the company of my daughter and the scene is forthcoming, she always asks “are you going to cry again?” “Yep” I whimper, covering myself with a blanket. And the waterworks flow. And I bet they do for you to.
Mulan
Speaking of daughters, this is far and away my top weepy moment, for this is one of the purest and most heartfelt daddy/daughter moments in the Disney film canon (and there are lots to choose from to be sure). It comes early in the film when Mulan is feeling depressed and unsure of herself and of her place in the world. Sitting in grove of cherry trees, her father sits by her side. He senses the pain in her daughters heart, but rather than trying to solve her problems (which he knows he can’t do through mere words), he simply comments “My, what beautiful blossoms we have this year. But look, this one’s late. But I’ll bet that when it blooms, it will be the most beautiful of all.” Mulan knows what he means, and we know what he means. It’s that reassurance from your father that he believes in you, that he loves you, and that to him you are the most treasured part of his heart and soul. For every child that’s felt out of place or unappreciated, and for every parent (father in my case) who has wanted nothing less than to give their whole world to their daughter or son, this parent/child moment is one that touches everyone.
Later in the film, the Emperor echoes this sentiment when he says “The flower that blooms in adversity is the most rare and beautiful of all.” And yes, both moments make me unabashedly cry. Not tears of sadness, but of love…love for my daughter and the strongest love I know I will always have. One that will never be broken.
It’s such an emotional moment for me that my loving daughter, much in the spirit of Mulan’s father, made this piece of art for me, knowing how much it means to me, and to us. (And in a proud papa moment, I invite you to see more of her amazing artwork on Instagram, @nicebreakfast)
And that is where Disney’s true magic lies. Yes, they can (and do) bring dreams to life, and they can recreate worlds that transport us to faraway lands, but it’s the way they can bring out our deepest emotions that’s their true gift. No matter whether you’re at the parks or watching a classic film, these emotions of love, togetherness, pride, and heartfelt connection are the true pixie dust.
And yes, I cried as I wrote this. But now that I’m calm and have wiped the tears away, I ask you…what is your most emotional Disney film moment? Is there one that speaks to you in a personal way? If so, please share it with us in the comments below. In the meantime, I’ll be off to watch Endgame again. (No spoilers, promise, but I will tell you I cried no less that 17 times. And I’m proud of it.)
Just a few notes of “Baby Mine” from Dumbo and I’m done. Also definitely agree with Toy Story 2 and Up scenes, and can add end of Toy Story 3.
Oh my yes, Dumbo! And I totally agree, you can include every Toy Story film. I also could have added the end of Monsters Inc. when Sulley opens the door and says “Boo!”…ok, I’m crying again
Lion King – Of course when Mufasa dies…but whenever I hear Circle of Life – it gets me every single time!
Oh, those are good ones Karen! (I realize it’s odd to say “good one” when we’re talking about Movie Moment That Make Us Cry, but I’m sure you know what I mean 🙂 The Circle of Life is especially moving…and Disney storytelling at it’s best if you ask me. That combination of emotion, stunning visuals, and an absolutely beautiful and moving song by Elton John and Tim Rice…it doesn’t get much better than that. It reminds me (and this speaks to Louis’ thoughts about “Baby Mine” as well) of how powerfully emotional music can be. Hmm, another list idea!
You’ve nailed it again, Mr Foster. Especially the Daddy/Daughter moments in Mulan. All the ones you mention above get me, some more than others.
I guess when looking back at my favourite Disney movies (and limiting this to animated and Pixar films), there’s the moment in Atlantis: The Lost Empire when Milo looks down over Atlantis and tells Kida that he wishes his Grandfather was there to share it with him; the moment in Tarzan when Tarzan accepts his role as a human, dressing in his late Father’s clothes and leaves the jungle for his new life, telling Kala, “No matter where I go, you will always be my mother”; not to mention Kerchak’s last words to Tarzan before passing on, “Take care of them, my son. Take care of them.”
For me though, the biggest blubber moment comes in Mulan, when at the end of the film, Mulan presents her Father with the Crest of the Emperor and the Sword of Shan-Yu as gifts to honour the Fa family, which he simply drops on to the ground and clutching Mulan in his arms, responds, “The greatest gift in honour is having you for a daughter…” Tell me that doesn’t get the waterworks going.
As the Father of a beautiful little girl myself, this one gets me every time! Thanks again Tim.
Yes, you got my waterworks going! These are all beautiful moments, thank you so much for sharing! In a way I think it’s a nice thought that my most emotional Disney scenes don’t stem from tragic moments, but from those moments when that parent child bond hits home…the most powerful love of all. (Now I want to watch Mulan again!) Thank you so much Luke!!
Every one of those movies you mentioned gets me a little teary when I watched them….even though I have watched them many times! My wife and daughter make fun of me because “Dad’s a sad sap”, or “Dad’s sentimental.” I can’t help it!
But then again, I tear up at Dancing with the Stars as well.
Great article, and I like the Top 10 (or so) Lists you do with that Mongello guy.
Thanks Adam! Yes, I know all to well the “dad are you crying AGAIN?” look. But it’s out of love so it’s all good. And isn’t that one of the best things about Disney? It’s ok to cry! (And scream on those scary attractions…you know the ones I’m talking about!)
Yep, that Mongello guy is a sweet kid…we actually just did a new segment “10 (make that 42) Disney Films We’d Like to See Made Into Disney Attractions.” Loads of fun! (If anyone wants to give it a listen Lou is over at WDWRadio.com).
Thanks Adam! I’ll be a sap right there next to you!
Just reading about that scene in Toy Story 2 made me tear up – that song does get me every time, for so many reasons…Also, it is impossible to watch Fox & the Hound without crying.
Oh no, now you have me tearing up again…yes, that scene gets me every time! I’m glad you mentioned The Fox and the Hound, that was one of my daughter’s favorite movies growing up! Thanks Stacy!!